Achieving goals, setting and imagining the possibilities of life is difficult. I know, I've been through it. It isn't easy, but it's worth it. Wouldn't you want to wake up every day and be happy to go to work, doing what you love to do?
Recently I took the plunge and set up my very own account on POF to try a social experiment on online dating. Being new to the online dating community I didn’t really know what to expect. I received over 200 messages in the first 24 hours. Overwhelmed would be an understatement. After spending the last week and a half reading through the messages, here are some tips I have for men, on how to be successful with online dating.
I love getting e-mails from guys (or girls) letting me know how their life is going and the growth they are seeing from studying Social Dynamics. Unfortunately too often these messages are telling me about an urgent situation that isn’t urgent at all. The typical response I send to the majority of e-mails I get are: “Dude, you just need to relax.” Inside you will find three common examples of this. Check them out to make sure you aren't doing any of these.
We all set goals with the intention of achieving them. Why would you set a goal if you didn't plan on following through with it? Often times we fall short of our goal, ultimately discouraging ourselves from setting them in the first place. The reason for all of your failed goals lay within this article.
With school back in session, I’ve had plenty of people sending me e-mails and hitting me up on Facebook asking how they can approach that cutie in class. What’s the best strategy? If I approach will she think I’m creepy? What if she’s always sitting next to other guys? None of this matters. Find an easy to implement solution inside.
Developing new connections can be tough, if you don't understand it. The only reason you haven't done it yet is because you don't know how. Develop more of an understanding for the world, and make it easier on yourself to create more options.
Yesterday I woke up to some bad news. The night before a close friend had been charged with a DUI. I ended up going to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting with him, and during the discussion period I was reminded of a valuable lesson to keep in mind when times are tough. Learn more inside.
The only enemy that exists win your life is an internal one. Facing yourself and coming to terms with the things that you need to fix in your life is developing internal self worth. It's a step by step process, this article outlines the first step.