The other night I went out with a guy who'd been told I was legendary with girls. Most people would love this attention, but it worked against me. The whole night, as we floundered around the bar, I barely approached and talked to any any girls. I dished out a lot of excuses. Here's why.
Landing in the friend zone is never fun. A recent conversation with new - found friend Marcela Garcia lead me to some revelations on what kind of guys end up in the "friend zone". These are the guys who are afraid to make the first move. The first move doesn't always have to be physical, though.
Being single can suck; especially if you dwell on the negatives. There's alot of benefits though, once you embrace the change and opportunity before your eyes. Jo Mac comes in with an awesome guest post on 3 awesome benefits of being single.
"I love you..." the month - long couple says to each other after a dinner date. How can you love someone that you don't understand? There are four stages any person must go before "love" is attainable.
Have you ever thought of approaching a girl, but then justified not doing it because "she looked like a bitch?" I find this is a common excuse many guys use to avoid approaching the cutie they want to. This thinking couldn't be further from the truth. Find out why inside.
I love getting e-mails from guys (or girls) letting me know how their life is going and the growth they are seeing from studying Social Dynamics. Unfortunately too often these messages are telling me about an urgent situation that isn’t urgent at all. The typical response I send to the majority of e-mails I get are: “Dude, you just need to relax.” Inside you will find three common examples of this. Check them out to make sure you aren't doing any of these.
With school back in session, I’ve had plenty of people sending me e-mails and hitting me up on Facebook asking how they can approach that cutie in class. What’s the best strategy? If I approach will she think I’m creepy? What if she’s always sitting next to other guys? None of this matters. Find an easy to implement solution inside.
Developing new connections can be tough, if you don't understand it. The only reason you haven't done it yet is because you don't know how. Develop more of an understanding for the world, and make it easier on yourself to create more options.
“Hey babe, can I buy you a drank?” A lot of girls go out to the bar with the expectation of either getting approached or groped (not that we want to or not)… one of the two. Typically with an…
Oh man, break ups provide a bad cocktail of emotional confusion all around. I think it’s sad how some relationships go from luke warm to searing hot then at a snap of a finger, ice cold. There’s no easy way to break someone’s heart but here are a few things I’ve learned to make it just a little bit better.