Day game is a whole ‘nother ball field.
Walking up to a woman in the middle of the daytime exposes you in more ways than you can imagine. There is no venue pumping your energy, there is no music to compliment your words. Approaching during the day has adds a very “real” element to the approach.
“I’ve never walked up to an attractive woman during the day. What do I say?”
Approaching during the day may seem like a weird idea to you. What is essential to understand is that most guys think like that. Learning how to approach beautiful women during the day will give you access to women that most men don’t allow themselves to see as possible options.
What do you say when you first approach during the day? There are two styles of approaching in general; direct (stating your intention of approaching) or indirect (masking your intention in the form of an un – related question). What style works better during the day?
Importance of Direct Openers in the Daytime
Direct game is much more effective during the day for two reasons.
1. Women are caught off guard. Women are consistently approached at night – clubs, and are prepared to be approached. They understand it as an inevitability of the night. This understanding allows them to be “on guard” when you approach. When you approach direct, stating your intentions “I think you’re gorgeous,” she is expecting it. Fighting through these initial resistances can be difficult for beginners (thanks, creepers). Approaching direct, during the day, will completely catch a woman off guard (what other guy does this?) eliminating the element of initial defenses.
2.Genuine compliments encourage flattery. Approaching during the day to ask a random question is weird. “Hey, do you think I look like Mr. T with this haircut.” Approaching during the day to give a genuine compliment is flattering. “I noticed you and I had to come say hi, I think you’re absolutely gorgeous.” If delivered correctly, most women will be 100% taken aback; blushing and smiling uncontrollably.
When approaching direct it is extremely important to maintain eye contact. The eyes always give you away. If you look away while approaching, it tells the woman you feel like you don’t deserve to be approaching her. The“real” element that Day Game approaching adds ensures honesty with your intention. Approaching girls you are not attracted to and saying “I think you’re gorgeous,” will have absolutely zero benefits. Your lack of ACTUAL attraction will hold you back from a real connection. Approach women you are attracted to with a statement of full intention. Maintain solid eye contact. This speaks worlds in terms of authenticity; she will be able to FEEL your compliment as real rather than just HEARING it.
The Anxiety that Ensues
The idea of approaching beautiful women in the daytime may be outside your current spectrum. I understand, I was the same way. Take these baby steps in your quest to becoming successful at attracting women in the daytime.
The first step is creating a Plan of Action that works for you in relation to the level you are currently at. You’ve approached beautiful women in the daytime before? Excellent. Make it your goal to make one direct approach per day for the next week. Break down each approach that you make; learning from your mistakes in order to improve your next approach. Never mind attractive women, you’ve never approached ANYONE in the daytime? Perfect. Make it your goal to approach one stranger per day to ask the time. Get used to the idea of talking to strangers. EVOLVE your Plan of Action once talking to strangers in the day seems normal.
Next you must hold yourself accountable for your Plan of Action. Do this by posting in the comments and sharing your plan. Here you can receive feedback on the progress you are making. You can also keep a journal which monitors your growth.
If you are just starting out; get used to talking to strangers. Approach and ask for the time, than thank them and walk away. Condition yourself to approaching during the day; you will begin to realize that people are friendly and receptive to your approach (as long as you shower and make sure you don’t look like a serial killer). Once you are comfortable with the idea of approaching, you can begin to develop main focus; the ability to spark interesting conversation with attractive women.
Approaching direct, stating your intention of approaching is the best way to approach during the daytime.
What do you say? How do you EFFECTIVELY communicate your intent?
Stay away from vulgar, crude words. “You’re so hot”… bad. “You’re fucking sexy”… ehhh. Be direct and be creative. Walk up to your woman of interest, stating your intention, catering to her specifically. Notice anything on her; shoes, necklace, dress, jeans, overall style and compliment on it.
EX. “Excuse me. I saw you from over there and I had to come tell you that I think you’re absolutely gorgeous, I love that red dress.”
“Hey! I had to come tell you that I think you have a very unique sense of style. It’s very attractive.”
The best part about being direct is that you are being honest. With that honesty, you can reveal how you’re really feeling. “This seems so out of the ordinary,”, “I can’t believe I came up to you and said that. I knew I’d be kicking myself if I didn’t come say hi,” are all feasible to the conversation.
After the Opener
As long as your opener is delivered with confident body language, strong eye contact and clear authenticity your conversational topics can range and will have flexibility. Success will come from the simplest topics and transitions. “So tell me about yourself,” will lead to a conversation where two can share their hobbies and jobs with each other. Something as simple as “what are you doing here,” can lead into a conversation about her day, your day, the Hip – Hop event you can’t wait to go to later.
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